When we bring our problems to God in prayer He often responds by pointing out what we need to address through the Holy Spirit. He does this by showing us how something may need to possibly change within ourselves in order to help us mature for our children’s future. This answer is often not the one that we are looking for but it is more effective in helping us trace God’s hand at work in our life.
Once the Lord shows us the direction to overcome our situations it helps to be patient as we walk daily to reach the destinations that we are given. There is nothing more awesome in this life than to see the hand of God at work as we learn to just follow and obey…amen
Sometimes in life we have to just lay it down in order to see if God wants it stand again...